A bad galfren?

some days ago me and my old fren was strolling towards the swing in the park...listening to songs and playing with our phones...then he said "you know....if only you were a guy u go cld all places with us" haha ...all I uttered was a "Wat" though i know perfectly what he meant coz he used to lament abt it when we used to hang out more often together when we had time on our haand....he feels like i am a guy fren in most ways..where he cld tell me anything and most often he would get an almost mean reply instead nicey sweety ones....where we cld happily play pranks on people n things....where we wld just kick a ball or shuttlecock or jog hours and hours in the sun...of coz i dont qualify for the boys nite with his frens and other evil manly stuff he does...haah so that was like a no entry for me and he used to say like wat he did..."i wish u were a guy" bleah...
that reminds a days ago a galfren of mine commented "you bitch like a guy....common u can do better"..i always thought i made a very bad gal fren...like i was always more closer to my guys frens than i ever was to my galfrens and even work better with guys than gals...i can never shop for hours in a big group of gals (i love to shop on my own..the freedom!), i can never sit ard and gossip or bitch abt for hours abt something (the only things u can get out of me is wat i feel abt the wholey thingy thats why i also think i cant counsel for nuts or millions :P), i can never do the girly stuff like make up, nails and stuff like that...i prefer guys frens for their laid back-ness, for their sense of humour, for their silly childish-ness, for their easy going-ness, for the way they think (like lets be objective and get things done)...hmmmz i do have gal pals...many of them but they arent like collective...like there are no sleep over parties with them ..no gals nite out with them..like they are there and i am close to them in my and their own ways but they arent the ones i wld seek if i need to talk to them at the end of the day ..or if i need to share something...its so weird...like i wld do it with them if they are ard at the point in time bt else i wld rather do it with the guys....welll let me think abt it while i go back to workie....

are we always suppose to support em?

okies...you have a close fren who comes to you and says he did ABC and he complains about how he treated for when all he was doing was good....all he prolly wanted to hear was "ohh its not your fault...its hers...dont worry about it". But I have this tendency to say you are wrong when I feel that you are wrong. so thats exactly what I did. I mean if I just smile sheepishily and nodd you in ur wrong doings and why am I a friend to? besides even if u still felt you are right at the end of it all...you had every right to think as such...i was merely expressing my concerns..my opinions...my voice. I mean yeah you are right there are people who would juz side their frens in anything they do peppered with "yeah you were right" "i will handle that for you" "how can they do this to u" but I cant do that. I wont do that. if thats wat you expect...